Have you ever misjudged a situation, only to later realize you didn’t have the full picture? It’s easy to jump to conclusions based on what we see, hear, or feel, but the Bible reminds us that things are not always as they seem.
One striking example comes from Numbers 22:22–35, where Balaam’s donkey behaves strangely, refusing to move forward. Frustrated, Balaam beats the donkey—unaware that it was actually saving his life by stopping in the presence of an unseen angel. In verse 30, the donkey “asks” Balaam, “Have I been in the habit of doing this to you?” Balaam’s answer? “No.” That simple response carries a powerful lesson: Sometimes, when someone acts differently than we expect, there may be a reason we don’t yet understand.
The Danger of Misjudgment
In today’s world, misunderstandings—especially in relationships, families, and even within the church—are common. A friend suddenly withdraws, a colleague’s words sting, or a loved one’s actions don’t make sense. Without seeking understanding, we might assume the worst. But what if we paused and asked, Why?
The Bible is full of moments where people were misjudged because others couldn’t see the bigger picture:
- Joseph and His Brothers (Genesis 45:5-8)
Joseph’s brothers betrayed him, selling him into slavery. Yet, years later, Joseph revealed that their actions—though meant for harm—were used by God to save many lives. What seemed like a cruel betrayal was actually part of a divine plan. - Hannah and Eli (1 Samuel 1:12-17)
As Hannah prayed in deep anguish, Eli, the priest, assumed she was drunk. Instead of reacting in anger, she explained herself, and Eli blessed her. This reminds us that appearances can be deceiving. - Jesus and the Cross (Luke 23:34)
The crowd saw a criminal being crucified, but they couldn’t see the salvation God was working through Christ’s suffering. Even as He was mocked, Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”
A Call to Patience and Understanding
It’s easier to judge than to seek understanding. But wisdom calls us to pause, ask questions, and listen before we assume the worst. The very person we think is against us may actually be standing in the gap for us—just like Balaam’s donkey.
As you go about your day, remember:
- Not everything is as it seems.
- Before reacting, ask questions.
- When misunderstood, trust that God sees the heart.
May God help us to walk in patience, wisdom, and grace.
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